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It was not
long after we went to bed that we heard the
knock. Standing by the door was one of the
elders in the village who is also a member
of our church.
"What happened
today was very awful," he announced.
"What?"
"One lady
delivered 'something'"
"What is that?"
"Come and see!"
Bad Omen
When we got to
the compound, we saw the 'something' on the
floor. It was a baby in a pool of her blood,
with the placenta dangling. She had
just been delivered. The baby was shivering
in the harsh harmattan cold. The mother and
other members of the family had deserted the
baby and ran away. They told us that the
mother delivered the baby and she fell face
down on the floor, and that this was a
taboo.
I told them
that it is not the fault of the baby as the
mother had no one to help her in the course
of delivery. They refused to listen to me,
reiterating that it was forbidden in Boko
land. they said that they called us to help
them raise the sum of N4000 ($34) for a
witch doctor to slaughter the baby and carry
out some rituals. The grand father of the
child had been weeping, seeking someone to
assist them.
"This is just
an accident," we tried to reassure them.
They insisted it was not, that the baby does
not mean well. They said, if they let the
baby live she would kill both her parents
and wipe out their lineage, and they would
not allow this to happen. And if the parents
decide not to kill her, the people in the
village would burn down their family house,
kill them or drive them away from the
village as allowing this kind of baby to
live may bring serious calamity to the clan.
One of the villagers went on to inform us
that they just killed a baby like that a
month earlier.
Another
practice is that if a child grows the upper
teeth first, they will kill him by holding
the legs and drowning him in a basin of
water. The ones they cannot kill are taken
by the Fulani cattle rearers, and over the
years these ones have grown into a tribe
known as the Gando Fulani. For the case of
falling face down however, no one made any
effort to take the babies. The babies have
always been slaughtered. However, we heard
of a family that had this kind of baby,
father and mother took her and escaped to
the other side of the border in Benin
Republic. And the mother died.
A Gift from God
When we cold
not stop the people who were bent on killing
the baby, we pleaded that they give us the
baby. They agreed but on the condition that
we take all the items that were used during
the delivery. We took the baby, cut off the
placenta, and found a placenta bury them as
they did not want it around their area.
Early the
following morning, I went to the chairman of
the Local Government Area and the Police to
make report. The chairman, a Boko man looked
at me and said, "we heard a story that
Mary Slessor, a missionary stopped the
killing of twins in Nigeria. Probably, you
are the ones that can stop this practice in
our land." He told me to go to the district
head and request that he calls the parents
to write an undertaking that they had
rejected the child and given her to me. I
met the village head who invited the child's
parents. We signed the documents. One was
given to the district head, one to the
Police and I kept the other one. That was
how God gave us ownership of a baby and we
named her, Favour of God.
Favour began to
grow. The people were watching from afar.
Gradually, some started to peep to see if
the baby is alive. When they started to
notice her tremendous growth, they started
saying, "This baby does not resemble a Boko
child." And now, some even come to touch
her. Now over ten months old, Favour is very
health and doing very well. She is a sign to
the whole community.
It is now over ten years that Ephraim and
Regina Nnaji have been waiting for the fruit
of the womb. Who will deny that Favour is
God's gift to them? How unsearchable are His
ways! The Nnaji's are CAPRO's pioneer
missionaries to the Boko people. (a very
unreached people group) of Niger State,
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